Words that i should remember till i die

Forgive and Forget

In life there will come a time when you will open your heart and forgive someone you love, but when you forgive you must forget. People will make mistakes and everyone pays for them, but when you use there mistakes against them you yourself are making a mistake. If you can not forgive and forget then you never truly loved, but if you do then let it be and forget the past and make the one you love happy. If you don’t in time they will let you go and the worst pain you will ever feel will quickly grow. You will live to regret and never love again because that person you hurt was the one you would have spent your life with to the end.

Forgive and dont forget me .
C.J :-)

Why does human beings Drink

I would like to take this opportunity to share my feelings about this dreadful thing that humans intake and leave this world. I write this in red colour intimating that this habit will suck the blood of humans like a poisonous snake. Why such a bad thing attracts human brain faster when there is wonderful things in this world for which we can spend money on.

I had a opportunity of meeting a doctor who explained about this habit in detail. I want to blog on this topic because in my life I should not get induiged in this bad habit, when ever I get a urge for trying I should read this blog so that my mind will change.

Yesterday one of my peer shared a dreadful thing. When she was coming from home to work she witnessed a accident, it was between a car and a bike. The person in the bike is badly injured and was struggling for life. People gathered around the incident and pulled the car driver and slapped him, the driver was not in a position to stand because he was fully drunk. They gave him one slap and he fainted. Look such a simple thing has taken a person's life, if I get to see that person I will kill him. The person on the bike was a young guy.

When people start to drink it will take their life out or it will take other people's life who are dependent on them. The doctor told me that it is a disease and something which should be treated like the other diseases. People will not be in a position to understand this until they die or make others die.

I have seen many people in my life who has lost everything they have because of this bad habit. Why cant they change. Why cant such a thing be banned in our country. If you take the senses you will know what impact this has created in the people of our country.

There should be some kind of ban for these things so that you could see people forcing themselves to leave this habit. Life is beautiful and why make it ugly by doing such a stupid thing. People wont realize certain things before they could loose it. Life is such a thing for drinkers.

I can give lot of examples of people who has lost their life, lost their happiness. These things will start as fun in life and end life with fun only for those who possess this habit and not for others who live with them.

I wish I get an opportunity to write articles in newspapers, atleast I can change few people's life. I am very young to talk to people to change their thinking about life. My aim in later part of my life is to see people changing and living happily because of me.

Most of the people who drink will have a wonderful reason for it. In my point of view men drink because of love failure or wife is not understanding. You might see that the reasons revolves around a gal or a problem. I don't know why gals drink????. When you look at things from a broader perspective I do agree it pains when someone whom we like very much hurt us. When ever there is a love failure the gal is not asking the guy to drink, inturn the guy starts drinking posting the blame on the gal and spoiling the life. The pain of separating in relationship will be there for both guys and gals. The only difference is gals have a strong heart in relationships and guys lack that.

I would like to see a world with people living without tobacco. My wish is a dream, I will be happy if it happens.

My view at things
C.J :-)

Philosophy Of My Life

First and foremost I would like to thank all those people who have been bad and mean to me. It was because of their wickedness that I became aware of the reliaties of life. Many people had been unjust to me and I did not know whom to trust. Hence I learnt to trust myself. It was out of this trust I developed my philosophy of positive thought. I saw good in their bad. It gave me the strength from within to seek good out of evil. It helped me grow into a stronger individual from within. With each blow of theirs I emerged triumphant. I reliased my weakness and worked on them. A well deserved thanks to all of them.

This world will not be a good place for any of us to live unless we make it a good place for all of us to live in.

In my opinion my life has taken various twist and turns. Sometimes tsunami strikes and sometimes angles ask for wishes. I should be blessed to have a life what I live now. I studied in a school where I had lot of people around me who are from different culture, the same is the story with my company that I work .

I am very young to use the phrase ' in my years of service', hence my journey as a employee is very interesting. It made me matured in life and thought me how to face situations when things are going tough. I had many friends but none were like what I expected, expect for few.

I always had lot of respect for women in my life, but few gals that I faced in my life just made me feel the other way. I cannot generalize it because I have seen good and bad side of them. Till now I have seen more of bad and horrifying side and I am waiting for some good things to happen. I realized lot of things as and when I faced painful situations, I came up with a saying ' gals are like roses, from a distance they look very attractive and when you get close they are great, if you do not pick the right one, you can see your blood flowing down.

In my opinion no human being can statisfy 2 persons for the same situation, when we look deep into our life many such instances would have happened, like when our father refuses to give us money we hate him and at the same time if he gets us something that we like, we will like him. This is how life works, we live with situations and change ourselves according to it. I am a fun loving guy and I wont be in a position to be the same with everyone. People to people differ in their opinion.

A small saying,
' when you cant change the world for better living, change yourself to the world for achieving it' .

All that I write is the way I look at life and I know others have a different eye on it. I am too young to talk philosophy but I love doing it, I personally feel life will be happier if you understand and look at it from philosophical side.

All the situations in our life have two factors attached to it
1)internal
2)external
when you look at the insight of these 2 factors, our life situations revolve around it. In life when we get angry or emotional, just compare the incident and think whether it is internal or external, I use this and works fine for me. Internal factors are something in which we will have a hold and external factors are something in which we will not have a hold but still we feel emotional and angry.

Change your Perceptual style

We see the world through our own glasses. We see good and bad. We see beautiful and ugly. But actually what we see is not always reality. We see what we feel from within and what we want to see. Our perceptions reflect what we are from within. Our attitudes , beliefs and feelings force us to look for consistencies in the outside world. Our attention becomes selective and we do not see reality in totality but only in segments of things. Such information is not only harmful to ourselves but to others with whom we interact. Look at the better side of things and people. We all have our weakness but it is our strength that are of importance.

Count your blessings and write it down. Monitor yourself and then start monitoring others. Love what ever you do and enjoy everymoment of life. Yesterday is gone and tomorrow might come but today we live and that's what important. Meet many people and get to know their life, by this you will come to understand that we live a gifted life from god.

Live life in the best possible way, try to be someone whom everyone likes and do not hurt anyone purposefully.

Life is very simple
smile with a dimple

Thoughts from Me
C.J :-)