Life has so much to Offer!

I always had this saying diving deep down my heart at every given situation of my life. When life treats you BAD,life pushes you down or it takes something away from you, always remember these golden words. It is your life and you should take full control of it, and that control can start from within you and not from others.

I have been in these kind of situations more often than not, when ever life takes something away, it will not leave that space empty, it will fill it with what has to be there. Human mind is so fragile and sensitive that it cannot miss any moment, it needs things to happen that very moment, it is at this point when you become weak in heart, patience is at stake, you start liking everything which is good to you without allowing the judgmental part of brain to work.

When ever you lose something in life, always remember that you have lost only ‘SOMETHING’ in life and not ‘LIFE’, all it takes is to have a strong mind and heart which can work together at different situations to get the best back in your life. The biggest mistake that we do is to dwell in the past, it is one bad habit that most of us have, it takes a lot in a person to see from today and dream a great ending. As the saying goes “you cannot go back and make a new beginning but you can start today and make a new ending”. Never lose confidence and hope no matter how bad a situation you get into, because these are the ultimate weapons that can get you out from it successful.

Never ask ‘WHY ME’ when life treats you bad or pushes you down, because we do not ask ‘WHY ME’ when the same life takes us to different heights. Always search for ‘WHY’ which will help you understand what is going wrong and how it can be corrected. Everyone should have the confidence to feel it is MY LIFE and i have the ultimate control of it.

Life gives answers in three ways to everything you ask for

1. It says yes and gives you what you want

2. It says no and gives you something better

3. It says wait and gives you the best

My belief is that if you do not ask for anything, do not have any expectations, be sincere in your efforts you will get the best. It happened with me all my life. I never planned for anything. I took one step at a time, put in my sincere efforts got the best results.

I did not have a wish list for anything. Things just happened for me. May be I am very lucky. But I don’t believe that people are just lucky and they get what they want without the hard work. I think of it more as I got what I deserved. I guess it is like that with everyone.

I have seen my parents live like this. Dad and mom never had any expectations from life, from us, from what they did. And they led a happy, peaceful life. You will not face many disappointments in this way of life.

I believe in God. But I confess I pray most of the time when I need something, like when I go for an interview. But I never ask for success in my attempt. I do ask for the strength to do my best. After the interview or any exam I ask god to give me what I deserve the most. I will accept it happily; with out any regret what so ever. I am not a super human not to get disappointed when I fail in my attempts. But I do recover quickly keeping in mind that “Everything happens for the best.”

The secret is I don't know what is best for me, and I leave it for my fate, destiny or God to decide it for me. One catch for this is that you need to make the best of what is given to you. I failed at certain things in my life but I had better things that followed. So now when I fail at some thing I feel that it will do something good for me in the long run. Now I am less worried about my future!